Michael Onslow
London psychotherapist and counsellor
MBACP NCPS accred. Dip.CounsPsych
Psychotherapist in London - offering in person and online therapy
Welcome

Many of the people who come to see me have spent years carrying difficult feelings on their own.
You may be struggling with anxiety, difficulties in relationships, low self-esteem, grief, or experiences from the past that continue to affect you in the present. Perhaps you have become highly skilled at coping, managing responsibilities, and appearing as though everything is fine. Yet underneath, something continues to feel difficult, unresolved, or hard to bear alone.
Sometimes people arrive knowing exactly what they want help with. Just as often, they come with a sense that something isn’t right, even if they struggle to put it into words.
Before becoming a psychotherapist, I spent many years working in the arts. That experience gave me a deep appreciation for the complexity of emotional life and the different ways people adapt to loss, uncertainty, disappointment, and pain. It also taught me that what we show to the world is often only part of the story.
My aim is to offer a space where you can speak openly without fear of judgement; where difficult feelings can be thought about rather than pushed away, and where experiences that may never have felt fully understood can begin to make sense.
You do not need to arrive with a clear explanation, a diagnosis, or all the answers. Therapy can be a place to slow down, reflect, and explore experiences that may have felt difficult to think about on your own.
Many people come to therapy wondering why they feel, think, or react in the ways they do. Together, we can explore patterns that may have developed as ways of coping but no longer serve you. With curiosity, compassion, and care, therapy can create space for parts of your experience that may have been overlooked, hidden, or difficult to acknowledge. As these experiences begin to find words and meaning, new ways of relating to yourself and others can gradually emerge.
“Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength.”
Getting in touch
I know getting in touch can feel daunting. You’re welcome to email, text or call with any questions, or to arrange an initial conversation, without obligation to continue.
I offer a free 20-30 minute consultation where we can talk about what's bringing you to therapy and whether we feel like a good fit.
