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Dating has always been emotional, but the world we date in now brings a new kind of pressure. With apps, endless choice, and fast expectations, finding love today can feel more overwhelming than ever. For many people, attachment anxiety in modern dating taps directly into old fears about being wanted, valued, and understood. Attachment theory can help make sense of why dating feels so intense, because it isn’t just about finding someone. It’s about feeling safe with someone.

For many people, self-criticism and low self-esteem feel strangely safe. It can even seem useful as a way of keeping yourself in check, staying motivated, or avoiding mistakes. But over time, that inner voice that tells you to do better or try harder can become relentless, leaving you anxious, drained and unsure of your own worth. You might recognise the pattern of replaying conversations in your head, cringing at something you said, or feeling you’re never quite enough. On t

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Starting therapy after trauma can feel daunting. You may wonder if you’ll be asked to talk about things you’re not ready to revisit, or...